Life Groups. Community Groups. Grow Groups. Lots of names but the same premise. Here’s what I’ve figured out. Keep looking until you find the fit. Also, know that a fit today may not be a fit in 18 months. Hold it loosely. Give it a life expectancy. (That in itself will keep a lot of feelings from being hurt.)
Live life together, pray for each other, eat together (break bread/Acts 2:46), study the Word. We found a fit. It’s our safe haven.
You should come away challenged, not feeling it’s a competition.
Serve more. Love more. Then, you will grow.